Sunday, January 28, 2018

Err In Love

SCRIPTURE:

1 Corinthians 8:1-9
Now concerning food offered to idols: we know that “all of us possess knowledge.” This “knowledge” puffs up, but love builds up.  if anyone imagines that he knows something, he does not yet know as he ought to know. But if anyone loves God, he is known by God. Therefore, as to the eating of food offered to idols, we know that “an idol has no real existence,” and that “there is no God but one.”  For all though there may be so called gods in heaven or on earth — as indeed there are many “gods” and many “lords”—yet for us there is one God, the Father, from whom are all things and for whom we exist, and one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom are all things and through him we exist.  However, not all possess this knowledge. But some, through former association with idols, eat food as really offered to an idol, and their conscience, being weak, is defiled.  Food will not committed us to God. We are no worse off if we do not eat, and no better off if we do. But take care that this right of yours does not somehow become a stumbling block to the weak.

THOUGHTS:

Yesterday, I sat with and meditated on Psalm 111.  I encourage you to go read it. It is a psalm that describes the splendor and majesty of the Lord. It tells of His graciousness, mercy, faithfulness and justice. It declares that the Lord is indeed holy and awesome because it is He who acts and initiates. It is He who reveals and illuminates. He calls and delivers and He directs and commissions and His love and covenant endure forever.

The text above are the words of Paul, written to one of his congregations, about the things that they know about G-d and of the ways that those things should inform their behaviors. Paul, right off the bat, admits that we all have knowledge. We all know what we know. We all have practices, doctrines, rules and ways in which we choose to live. That knowledge often times sets us apart in ways that G-d never intended us to be set apart. This is the “puffs up” that Paul speaks of.  Our perceived knowledge of G-d and His ways presents occasionally as "holier than thou." We imagine that what we know is the only good and right thing, forsaking all else as wrong. Paul gently reminds his readers that if we imagine that we know something, we must also acknowledge that we do not know all things and even that we could be wrong. But there is one thing according to Paul that we know for certain and that is that we are loved by G-d. Psalm 111 reminds us of this reality.

If there is one thing for certain about our holy and awesome G-d is that He has given all to prove and to show the depth of His love and grace for each and everyone of us. Think about it -- Jesus washed the feet, sat at the table with and extended unconditional love to the very disciple who would betray him (John 13). While Paul is talking about a specific issue of what to eat and what not to eat there are great truths that we can extrapolate from his words.

Not everyone understands the depth of the love of G-d for them. They may understand that and still fall in a different spectrum of belief than you. The walks of others will look different than yours. In fact, if we are honest with ourselves they may do some things right that we are doing wrong. But Paul’s encouragement tells us that we can trust what G-d has done in us and is doing through us. His love and empowerment is something that endures forever. Many of the things that we think matter towards our salvation, simply put, do not.

Paul, in talking about food sacrificed to idols, does not prohibit his readers from entering temples dedicated to idols. In fact, he says a little later in the text that when you are in the temple of idols remember to love.  Our faith in Jesus Christ is not to separate us or take us out of the world, but instead meant to guide us as we live life in this world.

Paul's direction is that we err on the side of love, not doctrine, not our knowledge, but instead love.  Paul's direction is to trust the love and grace that has been given to you extends beyond your imagination to others.  Give the love that you have been given.

ACTION:

How will you err on the side of love today? What "knowledge" do you need to set aside in order to love someone right where they are? In what ways do you need to humble yourself and love better?

PRAYER:

Gracious G-d, You alone are worthy.  You alone are holy and awesome.  Help us today to err in love. Help us today to choose to love the unlovable, to break bread with our enemies and our friends.  Help us to love more deeply.  Amen.

Wednesday, August 30, 2017

On Love, Nashville and Imperfect Words

I need to say something and I'm a bit fearful of the backlash, but fear is not of God, but a tool of the evil one to keep people silent. So here goes my imperfect words...

I spent 18 yrs under the thumb of the SBC and "evangelicals" as a child and never did they speak for me. They definitely never spoke up for me, instead only down to me, allowing atrocities to be perpetrated. They never affirmed anything in me other than my ability to be a sexual object. Overall, Paul's words concerning love were not modeled or lived, in fact the exact opposite was methodically manifested in far reaching ways and the results were physical, psychological and spiritual harm to many, including me. 

The word "evangelical" has been hijacked, warped and manipulated into something that other than sharing the good news of God's love. It's important to note that not all Christians agree with the #NashvilleStatement. I cannot stand with statements that do not reflect the uncontrollable love of Jesus.   I believe in a Jesus who calls followers to preach, teach, and live a #theologyoflove.  Jesus loves ALL! All are worthy to our loving God, not because of adherence to doctrines or ideologies, but simply because of God's grace and mercy. All have access to Jesus & God's love...just as we are! 

I don't have all the answers. I fumble through loving people every single day, but I know that it is my hearts desire to be love and light to all peoples and trust that Jesus, the Spirit and God are bigger than hatred, fear and anything we or they label as sin. And on the day I stand before Jesus, let me accused of loving too much! 

#thirdway #lovewins #BeLove #JudgeNotJustLove


Thursday, July 20, 2017

Pastor Without A ...

It has been a while since I have posted. So today let me write about something that I unjustly deal with every single day. It is my gender identity, my femininity and in some ways my sexuality.  Here goes!

I am a pastor. I am mother. I am wife.  I am a sister. I am so many things. And all of those things G_d has known since He knit me together in my mother's womb.  I refuse to lose or give up my femininity because I have been called by G_d to a position that has been unreasonably hijacked by a man-made, male-dominated enterprise for a really long time. I constantly have to defend my role. I hear things like, "Oh, you're a female pastor?" "I didn't know that women could do that," almost daily. I'm asked about what I'm wearing, when I'm going to cut my hair off, if I should show pictures of myself in workout clothes or a swimsuit. I've had men comment on my being pregnant and how it stresses them to have to see their pastor pregnant. (WTF? I don't even know what to think about that one?)

Well, pardon me, but let me be blunt.

It is the dumbest thing in the world to ask me if I'm a female pastor. Do you ask a male pastor if he's male? Do you tell a male pastor to wear a shirt when he's swimming? Do you ask a male pastor to cut his hair because it's too seductive long? Do you even comment about a male pastors outfit on any given day?

Why should I have to hashtag things like #thefemalepastor or #femalepastorsrock? Isn't it obvious? Apparently not! So here's my knew hashtag which I hope points to the stupidity of this all - #PastorWithoutAPenis

Here's the thing. G_d knew I had girly parts. When he called me, G_d knew that I do not have a penis, but instead a vagina. I fought with him for years over that simple fact because I believed the bad theology that was pushed on me. And here's the thing, I am certain that many of you are uncomfortable with me even talking about this, let alone using anatomically correct words to describe physical body parts that were created by G_d, which only adds insult to injury.  And some are probably thinking that this bluntness is exactly why females shouldn't be pastors. It sucks that you feel that way, but here I am running passionately after G_d, refusing to give up who he created me to be.